In fact, I as there for 15 years
on an endless cycle of first meetings trying to find that connection.
There I was, 30 something, not getting any younger, meeting guy after guy and facing rejection and disappointment all over the place.
Being ghosted, fending off sex-crazed "brothers" and being catfished were weekly occurrences as I trawled dragged myself out to various coffee shops around London when all I really wanted to do was to stay home in my PJs eating pizza and watching re runs of Friends!
My whole life I'd been told to "stay away from boys" so it's no surprise that come the time to make a marriage connection with someone of the opposite sex I had no idea what to do!
However, once I started working with a coach, I realised how simple it actually was to get from that first meeting to meeting the parents minus the anxiety, the uncertainty and the fear and without compromising my beliefs or needs
I went from single to engaged to married all in 7 months!! I simply changed the way I approached these first meetings so that I stopped dreading them and starting enjoying them!